Music: Einstürzende Neubauten "Armenia"
(Apparently Typepad has a 'cut-off' point for posts - imagine that! Consider this a continuation from the previous diatribe.)
(Jim asks: hi Mistress i live near phila,pa and i beg you to please come here and kidnap me and enslave me then use me 24/7 as your slave slut,maid and toilet and yes please use and abuse me in all videoes. i am serious with a real request so please send me your thoughts sincerely slave jim)
My name isn't 'Mistress'. Your punctuation and grammar would make my third grade teacher weep with frustration. Perhaps if you wrote a sincere letter about yourself, devoted to an individual woman, and made it a point to remember her name, you would receive a response that consisted of more than, "It's $250 an hour.". Just a suggestion. Do not email me again.
(Abhinav writes: I am a boy from India and love women in boots or gloves.I think you are an amzing woman and are the supreme godess of boot wearers in the world.Youre body is perfect for all types of boots.I dream about lickin and sucking a womans toes,boots and heels but I amonly 14 years old. What should I do??)
Oh...goddammit. I don't know if I should be flattered, or if I should be looking over my shoulder for the 'Catch A Predator' crew.
OK, people - how would YOU deal with an email like this? And it is not unusual - I receive something like this...pretty much every few weeks. From a really young (read: underage) man, asking for advice. Most times they live in some far-off part of the world like India, or Peru, or Gaybash, South Dakota. And they break my heart. It was hard for me, growing up in a small, conservative town - I can only imagine what it's like for a teen living in a culture that rejects sexuality, and that punishes women for being anything but submissive to tradition.
The internet is both a blessing and a curse for fetishism - because can you miss what you are not exposed to? I don't know the answer to that.
And I'm female. No matter where any of you boys grew up - the fact that I'm a girl makes everything different. I didn't think about 'worshipping' boots - I thought about wearing them.
Fetishism is different for women. We are the ones who are coveted, and once a girl puts on her first pair of heels and walks in public - she becomes very aware of the...coveting. All of a sudden, her personal fetish seems to belong to everyone.
If women were as closeted about their fetishism as the majority of you boys are - you'd be a miserable bunch. And the internet would make $10 a day.
I want you to put your thinking caps on - and write a bit of sincere advice for this young man. I am sending him the link to this post. The majority of you are far more qualified to answer him than I will ever be.
(Click here to view the enlargement) <---I honestly have no idea which Bootlovers.com issue this was in - can one of you know-it-alls tell me so I can edit the link? Edit: It was Issue #42 - thank you Manoleat!